Conflict doesn’t have to tear you apart. In fact, it can become an opportunity for growth and deeper understanding—if you approach it with care. Following the Fair Fighting Rules can help you and your partner navigate disagreements in ways that build trust, safety, and emotional closeness. These small shifts—like taking turns speaking, keeping your voice calm, or taking a time-out when needed—can change the tone of your conversations and strengthen your bond over time.

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